Life More Abundant

Winter is Finally Here

2012-01-16T14:15:00.000-05:00

Winter is here which means the start of basketball season. Hannah's favorite season. She is playing again this year. This year is different though for two reasons. First, Dad is coaching. She loves having Big James as her coach. Hannah is a Daddy's Girls all the way and she takes pure delight in the special time with her dad. Second...it's way harder playing 6th to 9th graders. Some of these girls are tough. They are older so they are out of the the "learning" league now. They can steal, fouls are called and free throws are thrown. She loves it! They won their first game but I heard from the coach tha he's not so sure it wasn't more luck than skill.

Winter has arrived outside too! Hannah and Evan made the cutest little snowman while Little James was at snow camp for the weekend. Isn't it adorable? It was. They smashed it. Jumped on it yelling like Banshees. SO. MUCH. FUN.

It's a New Year

2012-01-09T14:34:00.000-05:00

I'm going to try to post more. I promise.
Today I am catching up on things and I promise a post with lots of info and fun Wickman happenings.
Here's a couple pictures to hold you over :)

Merry Christmas from the Wickman 6

2011-12-23T16:30:00.000-05:00

We want to wish you a Merry Christ-fill Christmas!! We hope your days with your family and friends is special, fun and celebrated the reason for this season. Jesus. We have had fun counting down to Jesus' birthday. During November we made a chain link and every link had something we are thankful. During December we have read them and thanked the Lord for each thing or person. It's been a great reminder that although presents are fun, God has certainly blessed us in abundance.

We have had a fun year! The above picture is from one of our favorite moments this year. We went to the East Coast for a week and a half. We covered Niagara Falls, Maine, Boston and New York City. Plus all the states in between.

James IV finished up his last year in elementary school and is now a Junior Higher. He is getting tall and even more handsome. He played soccer this past spring with his dad coaching and they came in 1st place! He also started running Cross Country this fall. I think he has found his sport. He loved it! he also came in 2nd in the National Geographic Bee beating out over 850 other kids! Most of all we are so proud of his love for the Lord and others.

Hannah is in 6th grade and is has grown a mere 4 1/2 inches since May! She has been a challenge to keep clothed in clothes that fit. She ran in Girls on the Run in the Spring and ran her first 5K. She did awesome! Her real sports love is basketball which she is playing again this year with Dad as her coach. She is a "total package" is what I tell her. Beautiful, smart, and fun! She is an all A student and has been student of the month for her grades and the way she respects her teachers.

Evan turned 3 this year! 3! Isn't that crazy? He is a funny little boy that loves an audience to make laugh. He is also a real smartie. Just like his siblings. He has learned to read some small words but is quickly picking up on more difficult words. No more spelling out plans for us. He loves to count, read books and do puzzles. His other love? Music! He enjoys listening to music and singing. If I can't get his attention I just have to sing to him. :)

Noel is 1 1/2. I really was beginning to wonder if she was going to walk but at 13 months she finally realized she can get around better. That, and her older sister stopped carrying her everywhere. Ha! She is into EVERYTHING! All doors are closed and valuables are up high. She is a little mommy and loves her babies and her blankie. Can't wait to see how she changes this year!

James and I are doing well. James still likes his job and we love our community. I enjoy being at home and available to the kids. I know they like it too.

We hope you all have Merry Christmas!
Love,
Pam for all of us.

Thanksgiving and James Birthday

2011-11-30T14:21:00.000-05:00

Just some pictures to catch you up on our Thanksgiving weekend.

Cross Country is Over

2011-11-01T20:11:00.000-04:00

The final meet is over and cross country was a success. James loved it and so did I. Fun to watch, exciting, and made James feel like a superstar.
I love his team. They are truly a TEAM. I was encouraged by the way the team encouraged one particular team mate. Nick. Nick is different from the other kids. Autistic, slow, sweeter than any kid I've ever met. Nick finishes every race. He is always last but always happy when he finished and oh so proud of himself. I cried every single meet I was at when I saw him finish. Not because I felt sorry for him, but for his pride and the team was always running with him. Oh sure they had already run their miles but as they finish they go find Nick and run with him to the finish line. He had friends and was a part of that team just like the guys that finished in 11 minutes. When he ran in at 35 minutes, he was not alone. Cool. Very cool.
So there it is. Cross country is over. Races ran, lessons learned...great season.

Pic One - Nick
Pic Two - The team running Nick in.

At the Pumpkin Patch

2011-10-13T07:43:00.001-04:00

A Fun Fall Walk

2011-10-03T19:10:00.000-04:00

Cross Country is in Full Swing

2011-09-23T08:58:00.000-04:00

Cross Country is James' sport of choice. The more the season goes on, the more he says he likes it. I like watching it too. It's a great personal accomplishment type of sport and that is how he likes it. He has been meeting or beating his PR each meet and that makes it exciting for us!

Birthday Brownies for Popcorn

2011-09-15T15:07:00.000-04:00

Popcorn is James' snake. According to his school papers, it is the living thing he loves the most. I noted he picked his snake over all people in his life when others were writing Mom, Dad, Grandma...etc. Popcorn the snake is 4. I don't do this every year, but one year I made a rice krispie shaped snake for her birthday and James talked about it for a year. So, starting middle has been a bit of an adjustment and James needed a little suprise for a pick-me-up. So when he came home from practice on Monday Hannah asked why there were brownies. When I said they were Popcorn's birthday brownies. James smiled the biggest smile. Worth it. He really does love his snake. I don't. I don't like snakes, but I sure love that smile.

First Day of School 2011

2011-09-06T09:31:00.000-04:00

7th grade this year for James. 1st year at the middle school. He was excited...in a cool kind of way.
6th grade for Hannah. She was excited, nervous and really happy to go back to school.

Evan's First Piano Song

2011-09-05T18:14:00.002-04:00

Sisters

2011-08-16T16:09:00.000-04:00

Noel sure loves her big sister.

Hannah sure loves her baby sister.

Summer Fun at the Pool

2011-08-09T10:22:00.002-04:00

My Date with James IV

2011-08-05T13:30:00.004-04:00

We have a tradition of "dating" our kids. One on one time. Showing them a little extra special time, attention and loving.

James IV and I went yesterday to the LEGO store in Troy at the Somerset Mall. It was so nice to chat and just hang out with him.

I love James, he is a wonderful super awesome kid!

More New York City

2011-07-29T10:14:00.003-04:00

Above: The 9/11 temporary memorial. Emotional for Big James and I, the kids were too young for it to have an emotional tie. It was strange to see the big empty spot in the middle of the city.

Below: 30 Rock!
Below: FOA Schwartz - James IV's LEGO dream
Below: We HAD to take a picture of this for Pappy. Even Evan said "Oh, that's Papa's TV!".
Below: Hanging out in Central Park. It just sounds cool to say that. Poor Noel, she was done sitting in that stroller. This was pure freedom to her.

New York City - Part 1

2011-07-26T11:08:00.003-04:00

Above: Times Square - don't they look like rock stars?
Below: Our monkey. We got it trouble because Noel wouldn't let go of the fence at the top of the Empire State Building.
Below: At the top! The view from the top of the Empire State Building is amazing.

I really was there too, the little guys tuckered out pretty quick.

Happy Birthday Sweets!

2011-07-23T10:37:00.004-04:00

Above: Hannah and one of the cast members from Cake Boss on TLC. She wants to learn to be a cake decorator really bad, so this was a special treat for her.
Below: At a lake in Maine. Isn't she beautiful?
Happy 11th Birthday to our Sweet Hannah!! We love you so much! Want to know a bit about our Hannah at 11? Here are some things that her Dad and I were talking about this morning...

She is one smart girl! She asks lots of questions and wants to know information about everything.
She reads. A lot. When she has down time, she reads. Inside, outside everywhere.
She loves her family. She is such an awesome sister to big siblings and little. Definitely a natural caretaker.
She loves all things art. Drawing, looking at and being a part of it. Her latest art love is cake decorating. For the last year she has talked of nothing else. So her gift is to take cake decorating classes. I look forward to seeing her creations.
She has a very tender heart. So in tune to others around her.
She is very intuitive and it's hard to "pull one over" on her. She catches on right away! It's HARD to really surprise her.
She isn't one to pour out her true emotions right away. She mulls them over, processes them, writes them down then is ready to talk about them.

She is becoming a beautiful young woman and loves the LORD. For that I am most impressed. She wants to serve Him and wants others around her to too. A love for the lost. She prays so fervently for those she loves to follow the Lord, just as hard as she prays for herself to follow Him. Best thing about her ever!

WE LOVE YOU HANNAH!!

2011-07-22T09:54:00.003-04:00

I love the picture of Evan. So "little boy".
All the older kids plus James and Bill went on a Kayak. L. James and Bill fished and it was a highlight of James' time in Maine.

We just HAD to stop at Ben and Jerry's for an ice cream, a tour and stretch our legs.
James got to learn to fly fish from a professional. Literally. Thanks for the lessons Bill!

East Coast Trip - Maine Day 1

2011-07-20T15:26:00.004-04:00

We traveled from Niagara to Maine through the scenic Adirondack Mountains. I can't believe I didn't really take any pictures. I was in awe of how beautiful a drive it was. I can honestly say, and I've been all over America, that it was one of the most beautiful places I've seen. Little towns nestled in the mountains with that campy feel. I loved it!
We then finally landed in Maine. My cousins William and Nancy stayed up to greet us and graciously offered their home to us for the next few days.
The first day William took us to a great little lake to play, fish and just run around at. After sitting the the van for hours it was an absolutely perfect start to the day.
We then took a ride up to a quaint little town that used to be the place for East Coast vacationers. It was beautiful!
On our way back we saw a moose and everyone was thrilled! William is a hunting and fishing guide and an accomplished outdoor writer and listening to his knowledge was really cool. Especially for Little James who is an outdoor nut. They were two peas in a pod. William even taught little James to fly fish. Clearly his highlight since he's been talking about it every day since. :)
I'm going to have to add the pictures on another post....there are just too many good ones to pick from.

East Coast Trip - Niagara Falls, NY

2011-07-19T18:17:00.003-04:00

Our first stop on our summer adventure was Niagara Falls, NY. None of the kids had ever been there, that they remember and we adults hadn't been there in a long time. It really is a beautiful sight. I have always been on the Canadian side, which the best view from that side is of Horseshoe Falls. To get a good up close view of both falls we sprung for a ride on The Maid of the Mist. We got to get up close to the falls. Every one got wet, but in 90 degree weather, no one complained. We had to hang on to Evan tight. He not only was slippery, but wanted to climb on the railing all the time. I was exhausted at the end of the ride, but it was fun and I would do it again.
James and James walked to the bottom/side of the falls. Hannah didn't want to go, so we went up to the platform and enjoyed the sun with the little ones.
We had a great stop there and I'm sure it will be remembered for a long time to come.

I like the picture below - James hung on to Evan and Evan hung on to James. Brothers.

July 4th

2011-07-05T09:40:00.004-04:00

A Day at Pearl Lake

2011-06-27T08:35:00.004-04:00

We had a wonderful visit with some of James' family. Great Grandma Wickman lives on Pearl Lake. With the perfect weather we spent the day in lawn chairs watching kids play in the lake. So wonderful. We got a pleasant surprise and got to see James' aunt and cousin from Washington state. Also spent some time with my father in law and his wife Linda. It really was a wonderful day.

To My Husband On Father's Day

2011-06-18T20:55:00.002-04:00

I love you. I love you as a Daddy.
I find it amazing that everyday you go provide for your children and I can't remember a day that you have complained about that. You just do it, because you want the best for your kids and I.
I can't help but smile every day at the reaction you get when you come home from work. Every child from 1 to 12 yells and screams "Daddy" and immediately wants your attention. I know you'd rather sit down on the couch and snooze for a few before dinner but instead you give your full attention to them. Listening to stories about their day, tickling them and just hugging on them. You melt my heart when I see you do that.
I love that you tuck the baby in to bed every night you can. She snuggles into her daddy and goes to bed feel safe and secure, just like the rest of us.
You are their rock. The one in our family that is there to lean on. You have always been there for all of them at any time they have needed you, without hesitation.
You show them Jesus every day. I love you for that! You love unconditionally, and would give your life for any one of them no matter what. You are forgiving, yet fair with punishment and always point the kids to Christ. You show His grace so well.
At this point you are probably thinking I think you are perfect. Don't worry. I know you're not. So do the kids. We love that about you. You're not afraid to tell them when you've goofed up.
Your children respect you more that anyone on earth. I heard James IV say recently that he hopes he becomes just like you when he grows up...with a different job. That says so much to me.
I love you James! Thank you for choosing me to be your wife.

Noel is ONE

2011-06-15T09:33:00.003-04:00

Our sweet Noel is one. That was a really fast year! As in, really fast. I just can't imagine life without her. She is changing quickly in so many ways. She is definitely an active girl. My latest nickname for her is Miss Nosypants. She has to know everything that's going on. Her and her partner Captain Destructo have lots of adventures together everyday. I hope her and Evan grow to be best friends.
Some of the things I want to remember about Noel on her first birthday.

She can't walk yet. I really don't even think she wants to. James and I will work with her and work with her and she just laughs, gets down and crawls. Stinker.
She is weaned! That is major. I truly was beginning to wonder if she would ever stop nursing.
Her favorite thing to say is Hannah. She says is a lot. Especially after Hannah squeals and hugs her when she does.
She is a climber. She gets into the cupboards, closest, bathtub, shower and anywhere else she can get her little self.
She weighs 19 lbs. She is so small compared to Evan at this point. She wears 12 month clothes....barely. She can still wear 9 month most days. She has teeny tiny feet. Size 2. Itty bitty. She hopefully will wear her 3's, which I put her in anyway, soon.
She has recently gotten very attached to her white fuzzy blankie. She giggles and hugs it when she sees it. Another one with a blankie. Seems to be the popular thing around here.

I love her so much! She a joy to be with and I thank God every day for her!

Barakel, Camping and Dr. John Barnett

2011-06-03T08:44:00.003-04:00

Those words sum up my Memorial Day weekend.
We as a family go to Family Camp every year at Camp Barakel. If you've never been, it's such a great time for a family. Fun activities, chapel time and FUN!
We still camp in the RV park. Big kids in the tent with my brother, and babies and us in the camper with my parents. It works out really good.
Dr. John Barnett was the speaker this year. Probably my favorite speaker at Barakel. He goes waayyy back with Camp and since we do too, we've had the opportunity to be there with him several times. He digs deep into God's word and really challenges. REALLY challenges. I feel full after his speaking. We looked at the Lord's Prayer in a way that challenged me like it never has before. I encourage you to go to campbarakel.org and listen to his pod casts from the weekend.
The FUN highlight for me, and little James, was the zip line! Highest and longest I've ever seen. What a rush! It was way better than any roller coaster I've been on. Once L. James and I got off that first step it was smooth sailing. We even went again. We fished (I didn't, but the guys did). They caught lots of blue gill and few bass.
A great weekend was had. Can't wait to go again next year. Next year we're heading up for Labor Day weekend. Want to join us?

11 Months Old

2011-05-15T20:39:00.005-04:00

Our sweet baby girl Noel is 11 months old. Already. I'm just going to bullet point all the fun stuff about her right now.

She is one feisty girl! She is into absolutely everything and if she can't get into it, she squawks. Loudly.
She crawls. Fast. Everywhere. Her favorite places to crawl to is under chairs, tables, and in the cupboards.
She says "mumma"(Mommy), "da da" (Daddy) "na na" Hannah, Ma Ma (Grandma), Pa Pa (Grandpa) and "no no no" with a head shake. She hears that last one a lot.
She is drinking out of a sippy cup some of the time. Loves to eat food. Real food, none of the pureed baby food stuff.
She stands. Hasn't quite gotten the hang of putting one foot in front of the other. She stands by herself, but doesn't know she is.
She is finally getting tooth!! It's making her miserable, and me too sometimes. It's a shy tooth. Doesn't want to come out too fast and it's nearly invisible to the naked eye.
She gives kisses, when she wants to.

She is my little cutie girl and I love her so much!! What would life be without her?

Reflections on Mother's Day 2011

2011-05-09T09:26:00.002-04:00

I came to a point in my life 10 years ago where I thought I'd just never be a mother. I accepted it. Now today - I am mothering 4 kids. Four. That's a big number. From zero to four. I praise and thank God daily for the honor of being a mom.
When my husband chose me to be his wife, I was humbled. After all he had two children that he cared for daily, and they would become my responsibility too. I now see what a privilege it is that he chose me to help raise them. I truly truly love them like they are my own children. I hope they know that.
James is a sweet 12 year old on the cusp of manhood. He is so loving, tender and LOVES outdoors. He is the best big brother to his siblings! I treasure his tenderness towards me. Hannah is my "sweets". She is my snuggler. Still at 10 years old not a night goes by that when we are together she wants to snuggle. I'm going to be really sad when and if that ends.
Then 3 years ago I had Evan. A dream I thought I had given up came true! I was a mommy. He is my "God heard me" baby. God heard my cries in my young age to have a baby and answered in HIS time. I'm so thankful! His name means "God is Gracious". He was and is.
Next came Noel. He name means "anticipated arrival". She sure was! I love her being my little mini-me. I look forward to her growing and us getting to watch her.
All 4 of my gifts from God are special and unique.

Growing up

2011-05-04T19:22:00.002-04:00

Aren't these kids growing up so fast? They are so beautiful and handsome. I ♥ them so much!

Evan at the Dentist

2011-05-01T21:45:00.002-04:00

Evan went to the dentist for the first time. I had Daddy take him because he is clingy with me and well, I let him. So he went with Daddy, sat in the chair like a big kid and "let that lady scratch my teeth".
James said he did fantastic. Looked worried the whole time but when he got a prize after he was really excited. I wish I had a picture of him with his prize. He picked out a fake mustache. Then went to Lowe's and Auto Zone with it on with Daddy and the big kids. Ha ha ha ha!!! What a goof.

Check me out Papa!

2011-05-01T21:43:00.002-04:00

Evan is finally able to ride his bike all on his own. He wanted me "take a movie to show Papa"

Cutie Pie

2011-04-20T15:50:00.002-04:00

My little cutie pie in an adorable outfit from my Aunt and Uncle and of course my cousins Jonathon and Nicole too.
She's so cute in this. We have gotten a lot of use out of it with the weather staying cool for so long.

10 Months Old

2011-04-14T11:23:00.005-04:00

My baby is 10 months old. I'm just going to list out all the fun things about her right now that I want to remember.

She smiles as soon as Daddy walks into the room. Although she wants Mommy. I finally have a kid that wants me. :)
She waves hello and bye bye with just her 4 fingers.
She waves as you carry her down the stairs like she's a princess. (she is!)
She can say "mama" "dada" "nana"(Hannah, sorry Gramma) and "Ba Ba" (bye-bye)
She still nurses and HATES a bottle. Hard for this mommy, but it's a season and I'll miss it when it has passed.
She LOVES Cheerios and is a bit of a snob when it comes to them. She likes the real ones, the yellow box ones. I bought the store brand and she didn't touch them. Oy! I think I'm in trouble.
She crawls every where. Fast! Too fast for Evan. He can't get himself and his toy away from her fast enough. Which leads to this next point.
She fights with Evan. A lot. She tries to take his toys, he yells, she squeals back. Yep, sibling rivalry at its best.
She does a finger touch with Hannah. Like a sister signal or something. She used to do it with everyone, but now only Hannah. Hannah loves it. She points with her pointer finger and Hannah touches her pointer finger to hers. So cute!
She points. At girly things. Yesterday at Target she points and said "ooohhh' at all the baby dolls. Precious.

We just love her so so much!

Happy Birthday Husband!

2011-04-08T14:18:00.002-04:00

My husband James celebrated his birthday this past Tuesday...I'm just a little bit behind in blogging.
(yes, I call him "husband". It really is easier with two James' in the house)
We had a wonderful time with our family. We had a yummy, simple meal prepared by me, Chris and the big kids. Burgers on the grill, fries, corn and peanut butter cake. YUM!
I love that my husband is such a good daddy. The kids always make him cards and he receives them as if he won the lottery. Keeps them forever in a special place. He glowed about them even after we got home.
Happy Birthday to my awesome, sweet, wonderful, handsome, perfect for me husband.

Evan is 3!

2011-03-21T18:08:00.003-04:00

My little boy turned 3 on Friday. I just can't believe it. I'm not going to dwell on that because well, I'll just cry. His birth changed my life so much! He's my gift from God...I never thought I'd give birth to a baby and now he's 3. Sigh. I digress.
Evan kicked off his birthday with a "party" with his friends. Well, I planned it as a playdate, which means Mommy's come too and I get to enjoy adults for a few hours. His friends suprised us and they brought him some pretty nice presents! We enjoyed our cupcakes and time together. He is still talking about his party. Probably since I still have the decorations up.
The next day we went to Grandma and Papa Luter's for the rest of the weekend. He was spoiled rotten with presents (just like all the other grandkids.) We had cake and ice cream and he got his balloon from Papa and Grandma just like he asked :) Of course!
Some of the things I want to remember about him right now. He's a smarty! He knows his ABC's and what the letters sound like, his colors, his shapes - even the weird ones like rhombus- he can sing lots of songs but his favorite remains 5 little Monkeys and Jesus Loves Me. Instead of saying "I am" to anything he says "Am Are". I smile every time. He is almost, mostly, potty trained. Ahhhh a relief to this mommy! He loves games. LOVES games! Candyland is his favorite but I have played the Ladybug Game 3 times today.
Here are a few pictures of his weekend. He wanted a FISHY birthday so, cupcakes cake and decorations are fish. We tried and he enjoyed. It was wonderful.

Evanese

2011-03-11T09:24:00.002-05:00

That's our word for Evan speak. He has been so funny lately I had to write some of this down.

After a Skype visit with Grandma and Papa - Papa had changed the screen crazy colors.
E - "Papa was funny in birthday colors, but I like Gramma "Gramma colored".

E - "Can I have a clarinet?" Huh? "I went potty I get a clarinet" (Raisinet)

E - ♫Moo Moo Skip and Moo, Moo Moo Skip and Moo, Skip and Moo. Be a Darling.♫

E - "Mommy? Where does potty come from? Target?

E - ♫Stand up and shout if love my Jesus, Stand up and shout if you are bored....♫
(not exactly the way I taught it)

Looking at a children's atlas.
E - "what's that?" North America "what's that? Europe "Syrup? I Yike syrup! I think I need a waffle!"

Evan is becoming known for just shouting out random words at random times. As in sitting and eating lunch Sunday he yelled "APPLE PIE!". No reason. Sometimes it's FLAMINGO! or BASKETBALL! He does make us laugh and I know that's his goal by the silly giggle and grin after. :)
I love that kid.

Happy Birthday Dad!

2011-03-09T10:28:00.002-05:00

Happy Birthday Dad! We love you so much!
You are the best Dad I could have ever prayed for. Now you are the BEST Grandpa/Papa EVER!!
Now I get the chance to tell you about my Dad. My Dad is one of the hardest working people I know. He's unselfish with his hard work. He went to work every day for his family not the position, if he didn't he sure had us fooled. He will volunteer his time and hard work for those in need. Not to get a "atta boy", but because he knows God would be pleased. Thanks for being that example. Dad is also SO loving! He always seemed to want to spend time with us after work, even when he was probably so tired. He is the same way now with his grandkids.
Let me tell you about my Dad as a grandpa. This is what he was made to be! He is an awesome grandpa to quote my 12 year old. He is. He spends time with them whenever he can and loves on them all. They get away with so much more than I ever did, but hey he's a grandpa now right? His biggest fans are James, Hannah, Evan and Noel. For Real.
My Dad LOVES my Mom. More that anyone else on the face of this earth. I have never doubted that. Ever.
We pray we have MANY more years to celebrate you Dad. Happy Birthday!!

Just Because She's Cute

2011-03-08T15:20:00.000-05:00

Trumpet Star

2011-03-03T14:50:00.003-05:00

Our sweet Hannah has started the trumpet this year. She seems to really enjoy it. I have enjoyed listening to her improve over the year. She has a really fun band teacher and most weeks it's her favorite class.
Just like everything she puts her mind to, she does it well.

8 Months

2011-02-22T08:35:00.002-05:00

Our little Noel Marie is 8 Months old. I know I keep saying it, but wow! those months go really fast.
Noel is now eating food. Yay! Big girl food. In fact she just doesn't like baby food. I've quit trying. She also scoots around and gets into EVERYTHING. She doesn't just get into it, she pulls it chews it, spreads it all over the living room then stares at you with a poker faces that asks "what? me?".
I love her so much! She is smiley, giggly, happy little girl that just loves to be around people. Her favorite person is still Evan. I'm sure it's because he's the silliest.

2011-02-17T08:40:00.003-05:00

James is in the 6th grade band. In his class, he is the only tuba. He really loves to play the tuba, and mostly because no one else in his class does. He's unique.
This was his 6th grade concert. They only played one song, but it was such a fun song. It's called Serengeti Dreams. My battery died at almost the end, but we still all of it, just in two parts. The one with the director pictured is the start.

2 Points!

2011-02-05T16:32:00.003-05:00

Hannah is playing basketball this year and is LOVING it!
She plays for our church league and is having so much fun. The girls on her team play so well together. It's a FUN winter sport.

Snow Days

2011-02-04T08:00:00.003-05:00

Snow days are great! We spent them playing and playing with a bit more playing. So fun!

Cutest Snowbunny Ever!

2011-01-29T18:20:00.000-05:00

This is what happens

2011-01-28T09:20:00.003-05:00

When you decide to make coffee and you hear a giggling toddler and a squealing baby. They had too much fun! Evan said to me after I took the picture. "When is Noel going to play with me and not make a mess?". Ha! Evan is a nicknamed Captain Destructo!

7 Months Old

2011-01-15T19:12:00.003-05:00

Noel Marie is 7 months old. In the last month she has decided she likes food. Certain food. OK, only fruit. I'll take what I can get. Noel is kinda stalled on growing so fast. I'm glad. I was having a hard time keeping up. She is wearing 6 months in some clothes and 9 months in others. She has the tiniest feet! I love them. Big chubby legs and little tiny feet.
Noel is a chatter box, but only says Da Da Da Da. I'm good with that. That means she is calling Daddy at 6:30 in the morning right??
Noel is so sweet. Other than feeding she likes to be with guys. Mainly, Evan, James, Daddy and Papa. She loves the guys in her life.
We love our little cutie girl!!

What I want my kids to remember

2011-01-11T14:55:00.005-05:00

A family of 6. Yep, we have a "big" family. We like it that way. As we go through our days I find myself saying "not right now" a lot. As in, way too much. Today during nap time I was struck with the thought of what I want my kids to remember. Do I want them to remember the house was clean? How much money we spent on toys we didn't play with? No. I want them to remember that I and their Dad loved them very much and want to be with them whenever we can. I want them to remember we told them over and over about how much God loves them just as they are and sent His son just for them to have eternal life. So, I crossed a whole bunch of stuff off my list and decided this afternoon was for snuggling, playing puzzles and tonight I will play Battleship, do nails and enjoy every single minute of it. It will be gone so fast. I started a small panic last night when I mentioned in less than 7 years James will be in college. Eeek....that's soon! We need to savor the moments with these Wickman kids. I know, because they tell us often, their favorite "thing" in the world is not a thing. It's to hang out with us. I need to give them their favorite thing even when it means things that seem important at the time go by the wayside.
I want to savor moments like this. Evan plays with Noel every day and cracks her up.

And this....does it get any sweeter than snuggling a sleeping baby?

And this....all the kids piling in the big chair at Cabela's, just because we can. :)

Top Ten of 2010

2010-12-30T22:24:00.003-05:00

These are the top TEN events for the Wickman family in 2010

10. We went to Disney in January. Kids first time there and first time on on a plane. It was a blast!

9. I (Pam) got in my first accident in February. Totaled the van. God protected me and unborn babe, Noel. We then were blessed to find a van that we could pay cash for AND it was in perfect condition.

8. James IV turned 12, Hannah turned 10 and Evan turned 2. Time sure does fly!

7. Husband James had a rough beginning to his year at work. Some seemingly impossible things to hurdle. God's hand was shown clearly and work is GREAT for him now. Praise God for the job he has, especially in Michigan right now.

6. James and I were able to see God's leading and take on some different challenges at church. I love our new church family and love that God is using us there with this church family.

5. Uncle Chris got a new job! PLUS he headed back to school for his Masters Degree. Yes, I know he isn't a Wickman, but we are REALLY REALLY proud of him!

4. James played soccer and Hannah was a cheerleader. They both loved the sports they played and look forward to playing the same ones again next year. We'll see. Kids have a way of changing their minds. :)

3. We moved!! Yes, we're still in the same town. Really long story short....God provided a home for us that all 4 kids have their own bedrooms at a price that can't be beat by people that God put directly in our lives to be a blessing. I pray someday I can bless them back.

2. Noel Marie was born on June 14 and has changed our family forever! It feels like she has always been with us. We are bigger this year than last and LOVE it!

1. God has blessed. There have been some very trying times, uncertain times, wonderful times and exciting times. Through all of them God's hand has been on us and we have been loved by the most high God. The best possible thing to happen to our family at ANY time!

The Little Ones are the Most Fashionable

2010-12-30T08:37:00.003-05:00

Aren't they? I think it's because their grandma's dress them. :) This is Noel's new outfit from Grandma. I had to post it so GiGi could see it. I love technology. Keeps us connected quicker than...taking a picture, getting it developed, mailing it then talking about it.

We had a Merry Christmas

2010-12-27T07:54:00.004-05:00

We had a wonderful Christmas day. We stayed at home ALL day. Just like the kids begged for. They really didn't have to beg, it sounded like a great idea to me!
Grandma and Papa came down Christmas Eve and spent the night...so did Uncle Chris. It sure is nice to have a place for everyone this year.
The kids had fun opening gifts. Evan actually started to "get it", while Noel just loved the paper. Big kids already had it down but had a few surprises they didn't expect and that is FUN for parents!
In hindsight, the day would have been more relaxing without a nursling attached to her mommy, but I am really glad I hosted and got to give my mom a break. She does so much for us. They really spoiled us this year! I am going to gush about my gift from her...I got a new bedding set. Dark red and brown. So beautiful!! Thanks Mom and Dad!
These days we're just hanging out and playing. Fun fun fun!

Pictures For the Fun of It

2010-12-15T14:44:00.003-05:00

This is how we spend our snowy cold evenings. The fire roaring, the twinkly tree lights. Just hanging out.

Yep. He's in Noel's bouncy. Goof.

6 Months Old

2010-12-14T15:25:00.002-05:00

Noel is 6 months old today. I can't believe how fast that went.
She is a true sweetie. Smiles almost all the time. She is possibly the nosiest baby ever. She has to know what's going on. There always seems to be something in a home with 4 kids.
New things this month: She likes to eat, but not oatmeal, rice or any of the grains. Give that girl veggies and fruit and she is a happy eater. She can go from sitting to her belly no problem then scoot around the room on her belly. She LOVES paper! She giggles when she gets her hands on it then scrunches it up as quickly as she can.
Noel is the first kid that is a Mommy's girl. She has become much more so in the past month. I have to say, I kind of like it. :) Don't get me wrong, she LOVES her daddy but gets all giggly when I pick her up or look at her. Melts my heart.

Christmas Stuff

2010-12-09T08:35:00.004-05:00

I saw this on a blog last week, and thought it was fun. So, here is everything you wanted (or didn't want) to know about me and Christmas:

1. Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? Tough one...egg nog shakes rock, but at home I would drink hot chocolate first.

2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? Presents are wrapped under our tree, and not put there until Christmas morning. We're not much of a Santa family. We don't encourage it, yet don't outright discourage it either. I think the big kids believed briefly, but I clearly remember the year they wanted to know the truth because "Santa" used some of the same wrapping paper as the year before. They're too smart!

3. Colored lights on tree/house or white? White! The kids would probably prefer circus lights, colored, blinking with a spotlight...but we agree together that the white lights looks really pretty and sparkly at night. I think white lights are so romantic. TMI??

4. Do you hang mistletoe? No, but I should!

5. When do you put your decorations up? Usually, sometime the week after Thanksgiving.

6. What is your favorite holiday dish? For Christmas? Breakfast brunch. The egg casserole tastes better on Christmas for some reason.

7. Favorite Holiday memory as a child? I have many. I loved getting up and seeing what the "family gift" was. Sometimes even more than the gifts that were just for me. It was always something we thought we'd never get. My other favorite is watching my Grandma and Grandpa Spear come over. They'd pull up in the truck and I'd feel like Christmas was complete. I think that's why it's so important to me for my kids to have their grandparents with them on Christmas.

8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? I really don't ever remember believing in Santa. My mom may tell you different?

9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? Only at my Aunt Jean's. We had to wait until midnight though. It was a gift from the name exchange with my cousins.

10. How do you decorate your Christmas tree? My tree is (except the lights) the kids. It's a hodge podge of ornaments and I love it that way. Warm, cozy and our own.

11. Snow! Love it or Dread it? I love it! At Christmas time. I get tired of it all along the end of February. I long for it's return though in the fall.

12. Can you ice skate? Yes, but not very well. I do live in Michigan. We love our winter sports.

13. Do you remember your favorite gift? Birds. Canaries to be exact. Orange ones. Herald and Angel. Only Angel harked and Herald sang. :)

14. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you? I have two answers. Christ. His coming to earth makes me knowing God possible. Second, family. I love my family immensely.

15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? My Mom's pumpkin dessert. YUM!

16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? with young kids our traditions are a work in progress. I would say the one tradition my parents had is reading "the gift of the Magi" together. My dad could barely read the end through the tears and once I "got it" I cry every time too.

17. What tops your tree? A star, That I don't particularly enjoy. I really need to find one that is super cool. On clearance after Christmas of course.

18. Which do you prefer giving or Receiving? Giving, definitely. I love to see the face of those that receive the gifts and know that they will enjoy them.

19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? The First Noel. Thus we have a daughter named Noel. Actually no. Someone just assumed that the other day and it made me laugh. Seems logical. I truly like O Holy Night best.

20. Candy Canes: Yuck or Yum? Yum! In small amounts

21 Favorite Christmas Show? It's a Wonderful Life

So there it is. Feel free to share your Christmas with someone else too!

Noel and Mommy

2010-12-02T14:22:00.003-05:00

I think I finally have a kid that looks like me.

Thanksgiving 2010

2010-11-30T10:01:00.004-05:00

We had a wonderful weekend with Mom, Dad and Chris for the Thanksgiving weekend. Grandma Spear, Uncle Larry and my cousins Ryan and Rachael with there for Thanksgiving day too. We ALWAYS have fun at their house!
Here are a few pictures from our weekend/day with the family.

The kids play and play...Hannah is a good big sister and loves to play with Noel and make her giggle.

Chris is working hard towards his Masters Degree and had to do a bit of homework. We're so proud of him and all his hard work.

Mom always sets a beautiful table. The kids especially like to drink out of her fancy glasses.

Noel helped with the night before cooking. Ok, she helped keep us entertained.

The weekend ended with a party for our now 12 year old James!!

Happy 12th Birthday James!!

2010-11-28T20:50:00.003-05:00

James is 12. That sounds really old to me. James became a part of my life when he was 6. I can honestly say I have enjoyed being a part of his life every day.
Some highlights about our James
- He LOVES Star Wars. Not just enjoys the movies...LOVES Star Wars. Reads book after book, watches documentaries...you get it.
- He plays the tuba! He really enjoys that too...I have to say he's getting pretty good at it too. I look forward to this years concert.
- James is one smart guy. Not just book smart. He is truly coming into his own and starting to figure people out. He is a very intelligent guy, remembers every word that is said to him. This last parent teacher conference we were very proud to hear that he is not only book smart, but smart about making friends and good choices. Yay!
- He is such an awesome big brother. He has always taken care of Hannah. Protects her. Now that he has some more siblings he is doing the same with them. He is silly with them, yet so tender and sweet.
- James LOVES the Lord. More than Star Wars!! He is always telling me a tidbit he has learned from God's Word. He is attempting to read through the Bible. It's slow going, but some things are really hard to understand at 12. Who am I kidding? It's hard at 37. He really wants to know God. Amen amen amen.
I love James so much. He is a great kids. I have especially enjoyed our trips to Ann Arbor to the orthodontist and listening to him the whole way there and back. He has a lot to say! It's almost as fun as grocery shopping with him. He's my shopping buddy. Only groceries. He's a big help and tons of fun. He volunteers to go and we have fun just the two of us.
Twelve. He's growing up. I have to savor the moments.
We love you James!!!

Still Thankful For Him

2010-11-23T11:34:00.000-05:00

I knew he was a bit too quiet. He did this Sunday night. Yep, that the expensive hand cream. Why would he want to use the cheap stuff?

Thankful

2010-11-23T10:38:00.003-05:00

Each Year I write a list about what I am thankful for. I think it's a good reminder to me of just how much God blesses day after day. So here is my list for 2010.

1. My husband - he is my love. I have watching him grow in so many many ways this past year. Most of all spiritually. I feel so safe knowing that he is striving for the best from God is all his decisions.
2. My children - they are my other love. We added one more to the Wickman group this year! All my kiddos are special, loving, tender and my gifts from God. The older ones have had totally different challenges this past year as they age and understand more. I'm thankful for God's grace in their lives. My younger ones have taught ME so much along their growing way. They are energetic and stubborn. Both of them....and I love them all!
3. My parents - aside from my husband, they are my best friends. I can confide in them and dream with them and they never love me any different. They are the best grandparents ever and I have loved watching them take on the new role with gusto. Seriously, I think they were made to be grandparents.
4. Our church - We have a great, awesome, wonderful church. We heard God's Word preached week after week and are stretched to grow in our relationship with God. We have found many new friendships that are so fun! Sure, we'd like to visit old places more but know God has us right where he wants us.

I probably could add more but I have a crying baby and a hungry toddler that I'm thankful for.....but need to attend to.

5 Months Old

2010-11-15T08:49:00.004-05:00

Noel is now 5 months old. Those were a VERY fast and busy 5 months!
In the last month she has changed so much, at least to me. She now interacts verbally with us. Giggles and coos, or squawks when Evan is up in her face. He loves to play with her and make her laugh. I often find her covered in stuffed animals, surrounded by matchbox cars. Not too much longer and I'm sure she'll be a better playmate.
She can almost sit up. She sits for a couple minutes then just falls over. She can almost roll over. I think she can roll over, but Evan is always "helping" her.
She tried some cereal. Hates it. Tried bananas. Hates it. Tried oatmeal and banana. Hates it. You get the pattern.
Hannah likes to lug her around and just be with her. She often will take her up to her and let her play on her bed while she just hangs out in her room.
James IV can make her smile like nobody else and he knows it. He goes right to her as soon as he gets home from school and she jumps and squeals at him. So cute.
We sure love our little cutie girl!

My Brother

2010-11-09T12:55:00.002-05:00

Have you met my brother? If you haven't, you should. He's a really great guy.
I only have one sibling. Chris. That's why I can post about him and no one will be left out. :)
Chris and I have always been pretty close. MUCH closer since becoming adults. My parents always told me there is no better friends than family and they are right.
Chris has to be one of the most patient people I have ever met. He is a calming person in crazy situations, but can be fiercely competitive too.
Chris is to me and many others one of the most faithful friends anyone could have. He seems to overlook your faults and never considers social status when it comes to friendship. He has always been there for me when I needed him and is the same way to many of his friends..treats them like family.
I'm so proud of him for going back to school and getting his Masters Degree. Hard work that I'm sure will ultimately pay off for him. Although we do miss him hanging around. :) Homework calls though and we understand.
It was a privilege to have a little get together for him, with Mom doing so much, this past weekend.
Chris, you are loved. Thanks for being such a great friend and brother.

This is one of my favorite pictures of him. He is the BEST uncle!!

Things I Want to Remember

2010-11-05T08:42:00.004-04:00

I want to remember things about my kids. Things they do on an everyday basis. Not just the big things. So here is my random list of things my kiddos do that I really want to remember 20 years from now.

- I love the way the two big kids rush through Sunday lunch just so they can get into sweatpants, snuggle up with a blanket on the couch and read the Sunday funny paper. They read and reread each one.

- Although there are times it is annoying right now, the way Evan asks me nearly every 5 minutes "whatcha' doing Mommy?" If I ask him the same question he says "don't say that, I say that".

- Noel has a different smile for every member of our family. She squeals and laughs with Hannah, She gives James IV the BIGGEST smiles, almost like she is flirting with him. Evan is her entertainment. She looks for him everywhere and laughs when she finds him.

- How James IV likes to pull up a kitchen stool and chat away while I make dinner. He knows I'm making dinner but also knows he has my ear. We have some really fun chats then. I know more about Star Wars than I ever thought I would.

- How Hannah will squeeze her way between James and I on the couch so she can be close to her daddy and maybe get a back scratch out of me.

- Evan peeks when we pray. So do I. He peeks at me and gives the sweetest smiles during prayer. Makes me want to pick him right up and smooch him.

- Evan sings all the time. I mean, all the time. He sings his sentences, sings real songs, made up words...he just sings. He even sings in tune! If you mess up a song by singing the wrong notes or words he quickly says "no, that's not how you sing it.". My music man.

- Noel will kick and wiggle and smile the moment she knows her Daddy is near. She is all smiles for him! They already have a special daddy/daughter bond.

My list could go on and on...I'll just post other ones at a later time.

Art at School

2010-11-03T10:26:00.000-04:00

Hannah and some kids from 5th grade painted this on the doors at school. I think they did a fabulous job!

Halloween

2010-11-01T22:31:00.002-04:00

Just a few pictures of the fun day.

I Just Love This Picture

2010-10-26T07:56:00.001-04:00

Mom came by herself one Saturday and I finally got a picture of her with the kids. I love it! She is the best grandma my kids could ever have. Yes, I am extremely biased. :)

I Am A Step Mother

2010-10-25T14:52:00.004-04:00

Why is it the word Step Mother conjures up so many negative reactions? I blame the story of Cinderella. I had a few acquaintances recently ask me about being a step mother and if I could shed some light on the role I have in a positive way. Step Mothers really do get a bad rap.
So let's start at the beginning. I married James, my wonderful husband 4 1/2 years ago and along with him came 2 blessings named James and Hannah. I often tease my husband because I really fell in love with them before him. In his defense, I met them first. James is divorced and we'll leave it at that. Discussions about why and how it all happened are off limits. Those discussions are for my family only. We want to respect the kids in that way. Thanks.
I get along with the kids amazingly! They were raised to be awesome little people before I ever came into the picture. They are happy kids that know the Lord and love Him. I have never even wanted to treat them like "someone else's kid", even though they and I know that I'm their step-mom. Treating them like my own has actually made life easier in our household. My husband has custody of the kids (another detail I will not discuss) so they are with me a lot. Since we were married two more children have entered the picture, and the first two are still treated as if they are my own. I just love them that much!
Love is the key to step parenting. You have to love those kids enough to raise them as you know God would want you to. God has to have control of you everyday in every way for anything to be successful, let alone step-parenting. I really just take it day by day. Just like you do with your own child. We get through upsets, failures, success, wins and love all in one day just like any other family. The difference in our family is we go through it with God at the center of it all. (Hopefully it's not so different from your in that way) Hannah and James know that and often thank James and I for having a home that is safe because of God. Isn't that what we want for any kids, let alone a step child?
The next question I get all too often is how I deal with their other family. Well, it is their life. That is their mother and the rest of their family. What point is there is not getting along? No point. We will probably continue spending many many events in the kids lives together so we might as well be friends and enjoy ourselves right? They have sibling on their Mom's side that are a very important part of their life, just like their siblings here. We are glad for those relationships and respect their time with them. Again, I just trust God. Just like we all should with any friendships or relationships.
Not all step parent/child relationships are this wonderful. I know this. I have no good answers for anyone that doesn't other than to seek God. He is the only one that can help in a situation that is out of your control. We can't make kids love us. We can love them unconditionally and let God handle the rest. If you have that type of situation, e-mail me and I'll pray for you.
So yeah, being a step-parent. Not rocket science, but complicated at times. Put God first. Let God make you the best parent you can be and enjoy the kids!

4 Months

2010-10-14T20:48:00.002-04:00

Noel Marie is 4 months today. Whew! Those 4 months sure went fast. It seems as though she really was just born days ago, not months.
Noel, pronounce just like the Christmas Noel. Some folks have taken to calling her Noel, pronounced like Joel. No. It's not that at all. Thanks. If only I could get the Dr's office to understand it drives me crazy when they call her that. It's not like a female called Noel is really that uncommon.
I digress.
Noel is still our happy little cutie girl. She is very quick to respond to familiar things with a smile and possibly a laugh. Some have gotten it out of her fairly easily. She is really ticklish! I can hardly give her a bath or change her clothes without her cracking up, then I crack up.
This months I think she is going to start rice cereal. This is when Evan did and he did just fine...she needs to. Really, she does. She LOVES to eat! I can't keep up with her.
We love our little Noel Marie. She is such a wonderful part of our family.

The Best Part of Raking

2010-10-13T08:43:00.001-04:00

Playing in the Leaves!!

Noel

2010-10-04T13:22:00.004-04:00

Noel is the newest and last addition to the Wickman family. Our family is now complete. She is a wonderful baby. So content and happy. If she knows your voice, she doesn't even have to see you to light up in a big beautiful smile. She is an absolute sweetie.
Noel is only 3 months old so there is not a ton to write that isn't about her schedule. She sleeps all night from 10:00-7:00. It's truly wonderful! Sometimes she is up earlier, but then goes right back to sleep. It's not often though.
Noel is LOVED. She is fought over by her siblings and sometimes by her siblings friends wanting to hold her too.
She is sometimes really snuggly and other times, she wants to be away from you and see you. She is one nosey girl! She keeps an eye on what's going on whenever she can.
She's a great eater, which you can tell just by the rolls on her thighs. She is nursing and this has a new experience for me since I tried with Evan for months with no success. It's been good and it's also been challenging for me to realize that it's a really big sacrifice to nurse. Oh but those deep blue eyes staring up at me with nothing but complete love for her mommy, oh, it just melts my heart every time.
So there is out Noel. I look forward to getting to know her better as her little personality develops.

Evan

2010-10-03T22:43:00.005-04:00

Evan the entertainer. That's what he's called most of the time. Sometimes he get the name Captain Destructo. He is always doing something to make us laugh. OR taking something apart just to see what's inside, or how it works.
Evan is 2 1/2 and is at the most fun age so far. He is just so curious about everything he comes in contact with. He not only wants to see what things are, he wants to taste them, smell them and ask at least 10 times what they do. He even is curious about me. Apparently since he asks me at least every 4 minutes "mommy? whatcha doing?" No exaggeration! Makes my husband laugh but can get a bit tiresome all day long.
He is such a sweet boy. He is still my snuggler. He likes to get up in the morning, even before breakfast and sit and snuggle with a book on my lap. Who am I kidding, one is not enough. That kid loves books! We read 3-4 then it's time to eat. Books, he is into the longer books now so they take longer, but he sits and listens to the whole thing! His favorite right now? The Pokey Little Puppy. Good book :)
Evan adores his family! When he sees you, even if it's just been an hour or so he yells your name like it's been months. He is especially fond of Gramma and Papa. They are his favorite people that live outside this house. Uncle Chris is really close up there too. He talks about them all the time. We talked on Skype to Papa and Gramma tonight and Evan was still talking about it at bedtime. I'm glad for their special relationship.
He is my stubborn boy that needs to get things done right. If it's just not working out for him, you know. He is quick to follow that with a kiss and hug.
I know I said this in every post, but he is SO smart! I mean it, all the kids are! Evan figures things out quickly and remembers them. Just ask him to look at a map of the USA. He can find Michigan, Texas, California, Alaska and Hawaii. I know it's only 5 states, but he's two. I'm impressed.
Evan is special to me. In a way probably none of the other kids will be. That doesn't mean I love him more, his birth was just a big moment in my life. You see when I was 31 and not married I seriously thought I would never have babies. That's all I ever wanted in life, to be married and have a baby. Evan is from God. God answered that deep desire within me with Evan.
So, there's Evan. Our goofy, loving, sweet, silly son.

Hannah

2010-10-02T17:36:00.003-04:00

Hannah is totally 10 years old. She is a great girl that loves to have fun in life. I was at a football game where she was cheering today and someone said to me that she is always smiling. Yep, that's Hannah!
Hannah is our sweetie. She loves her little siblings and really likes that they love her too. I call her the Pied Piper of toddlers. Where ever we go she seems to attract little ones. She will be a great babysitter and someday a wonderful mother.
She is so so so so organized. I can honestly say that I have never had to tell Hannah to clean up her messy room. It is always spotless. She even gets the urge to organize other rooms of the house too! I feel very lucky when she does, because she is good at it.
Hannah is also very intelligent. Really, they all are. She remembers everything!! She is the kid that the teacher needs to give extra work to just to keep her busy. She is also the kid the teacher needs to have sit by herself because she is a bit, ahem, social.
She loves God like she loves her family. Unconditionally. That is an amazing quality! She is so tender and sweet in her prayers. We keep a family prayer journal and she faithfully prays for each request each week. She is a prayer warrior! I pray she keeps that strong faith knowing that God is there hearing her every word uttered to Him.
I just love this girl! Although I did not give birth to her, she is my first daughter. She melted me today saying she was really glad to have me. She just wanted to hang out with me, hug me and just be together. I know those times are coming to an end....I cherish them now.
Hannah wants to be an artist. Bad. She wants to go to art school in Paris. Bad. You know, I think she just might. She has such a love for art and she can and has done almost every thing she puts her mind to.

James IV

2010-10-01T08:43:00.004-04:00

I've decided to take the next 4 days and tell you about the Wickman kids. They are all so unique and wonderful, they deserve their own post.

James IV. Yes, the fourth. He's very proud to be the fourth too. If someone doesn't say it right, or calls him junior, he is very quick to correct them. He likes being the son of his daddy.
James is now 11, almost 12. He is teetering between childhood and man. Some days I see him more towards the life of a child and I smile and enjoy that sweet innocence. Other days I catch a glimpse of him as a man and I cringe and smile. They do grow up, and he is growing quickly. He will be a wonderful grown up.
James is our sensitive guy. When I say that, I don't mean he's a weeper. I mean he senses things. He knows when something is up. He feels tension in the air. he's the first person to know when you are trying to pull something over on him. He will try to mask it, but his sensitivity will bring it out at a later time.
James loves all things math and science. He loves the precise nature of math, and the wonder of science. He wants to be a design engineer and I am fully confident that if that's what he wants to do, he will. The Lord gave him lots of intelligence and he knows it comes from God and wants to use it for His glory. Already, at 11. What a kid!
He can be the silliest kid! He loves to play pranks on his sister and dad, and oh the jokes he tells...his Pappy would be proud of how cheesy they are! He loves to laugh at anything that is slapstick humor. The more fake punches and falls the better.
To leave out his love of Star Wars would truly be leaving a part of James out. He LOVES it! He reads book after book about it. This past week he read a nonfiction about the creating of the all the vehicles and ships in the movies. Oh man, we all now know so much about them all.
He is so loving. I enjoy seeing him love on his sisters and brother. Although I am his stepmother, he has never treated me with anything but complete love and respect. He will still snuggle with me on the couch and likes to hang out with me. He told me :).
We love James so much! He is a super great guy with lots to offer this old world. The best is his desire to see everyone love God. I asked him this week what the best part of his summer was and he said "that my stepbrother will go to heaven now, he gave his life to Christ". Ah, that tenderness. I pray he will grow in his love for God everyday and become all that God has planned for Him.

Why I Love This Man

2010-09-30T15:16:00.003-04:00

I love my man! Yes, after nearly 5 whole years of marriage I love him even more! I know 5 years isn't that long compared to a lot of you, but I also know many of you that after 5 years weren't so happy with your man anymore. I am. Is he perfect? Not even close. Perfect for me? You betcha!! Why? Well, I haven't had a list blog in a while...so here's my list.

- He loves me unconditionally. Always. Even when I'm a complete screw up, he doesn't make me feel like one.
- He supports me as a mother. When I make a kid decision, he backs me up. We may have to discuss it later, but the kids never know that we didn't see eye to eye.
- He plays with the kids. Everyday. Even on days like today where he's only home for 20 minutes because of meetings, he will get down and wrestle with the kids, and snuggle the baby even when I know he just wants to sit and read the paper.
- He ALWAYS kisses me goodnight. I go to bed hours before him, but he always comes in when I go to bed and snuggles and kisses me. Which sometimes means missing a bit of the Tigers game.
- He is SOOOO good with numbers/money. I'm not. I'm grateful to God everyday that he gave me a man that will gently and lovingly guide our family monetarily with wisdom.
- He always spends at least 10 minutes of uninterrupted time with me each evening just to talk and hear about my day. It may not seem like a lot, but when you have 4 kids...10 minutes is GOLD.

My list really could go on and on and on. I will stop now and save some for a future post.

Our Soccer Star

2010-09-20T10:03:00.003-04:00

James played a wet game in the rain this week. It was a muddy mess and all the boys seemed to enjoy the mud. James played defense this game. He was right D the first half then switched it up to goalie. I love that this coach has all the boys rotate and try out different positions. They each get a lot of play time. Although they lost again this week, and no one seemed to Bend it Like Beckham, they had fun and that's what matters. They played their best and had a good time doing it.
James is still our star and we are so proud of him!
Sorry the pictures are a bit fuzzy...rain on the camera.

shake!

2010-09-16T10:38:00.003-04:00

Hannah was going to wrestle Evan all proper and wanted to shake his hand. This is what she got instead.

3 Months Old

2010-09-14T13:03:00.003-04:00

Noel Marie is 3 months old today. Wow! Those months went by way too fast. Noel is a true delight. She is a happy girl, almost all of the time. She loves to smile and laugh at her brothers and sister and especially likes being cuddled by daddy. Mommy gets her fair share of smiles and coos. She weighs 14 pounds. She LOVES to eat!
She rolled halfway over yesterday and got stuck, so I think by the next month milestone she'll have that down. She seems to be doing things so much sooner than Evan. She must already be competitive.
We can't love her more. She is such a wonderful part of our family. It's like she has always been around. :)

The OTHER Football

2010-09-14T12:01:00.004-04:00

James IV decided this year no football, but soccer. He really seems to be enjoying it. He had his first game last night and he played very hard. They didn't win, but that was just another life lesson on good sportsmanship. I actually enjoy watching soccer more that football, not just because I understand it better, but because there is constant action. PLUS it's a bonus with your kid is on the field a lot. :)

Rewind to Labor Day

2010-09-11T10:55:00.002-04:00

Every year we go to Family Camp at Camp Barakel. Some years for Memorial day, this year for Labor Day. We always have lot of fun. We go with my parents and brother. This year was a new thing for the big kids, they got to sleep in the tent with Uncle Chris...no parents! FUN! Although they did mention Uncle Chris snored. Although I'm sure it was quiet in there compared to the camper with my parents, James and I and two babies. The weather was cold, but the hot chocolate was hot and we got to sit close to those we love.
This was Noel's first trip to camp and she did outstanding. She slept all night and enjoyed being cuddled or hanging out in her carrier through the day.
We love Camp and love being with family. This is a perfect weekend for us.

Hannah got one more chance to see her counselor from this past summer, Sam.

They had a digital photo scavenger hunt and Hannah and James were all about doing it. They did a great job, didn't win, but had fun. One thing was a cartwheel in front of the dining hall.

The scavenger hunt was a sneaky way to have family time because the whole family had to be in a lot of the pictures. This one we are all holding an Oak leaf...even Noel.

I just like this picture. All the girls in our family. :)

First Day of 5th and 6th Grade

2010-09-07T19:34:00.001-04:00

Evanese

2010-08-30T09:48:00.004-04:00

Evanese is what we call Evan speak. He absolutely has his own thought process. Sometimes it's pretty hilarious! Don't you love the curiosity and imagination of a 2 year old?
I thought I'd copy one of my friends and post some things Evan has been saying and doing lately.

Mommy: Evan, you don't smell good let's go fix that"
Evan: Mommy, it's not me! It's the frogs in my bellybutton!

Mommy: Evan do you want your sandwich cut in squares or triangles?
Evan: Ummm, Ovals!

Evan: Mommy I don't want a hot dog, I want a cold dog!

Evan: Mommy, Gramma can't stay in the tent with Uncle Chris.
Mommy: Why?
Evan: She's too little. She still needs to sleep with Papa.

You just can't tell any exciting to news to Evan ahead of time. He just gets so excited he can't stand it. He found out we're going camping with Gramma and Papa this weekend and he is literally jumping and skipping all morning. He has 4 more days to wait! BUT, the first thing out of his mouth this morning was "Mommy! We go camping with Uncle Chris!!"

I just love that little guy. Don't mistake his size for maturity. He is still every bit of a nearly two and a half year old. He's tall but still my silly little boy :)

Take Me Out to the Ballgame

2010-08-30T07:25:00.002-04:00

2 Months Old

2010-08-15T18:26:00.003-04:00

Our little Noel is 2 months old. She is such a good baby. She smiles so much! They say the youngest child is usually the most compliant. They are right about that in this case. She just rolls with whatever is going on.
She sure loves her daddy! A total daddy's girl. He can get her smile like nobody else. As you can see from the pictures she is good eater. She LOVES to eat!

For you Gramma

2010-08-10T21:39:00.000-04:00

Where's Evan??

2010-08-04T17:17:00.002-04:00

Our version of Where's Waldo.
He's in there - notice his toy box is completely empty. He was taking a nap :)

Noel and Her Big Sister Hannah

2010-08-03T13:43:00.001-04:00

Summer Pictures

2010-07-27T19:32:00.004-04:00

Nothing particularly interesting going on here. Here are some pictures of our summer so far.

Hannah is 10!

2010-07-23T12:12:00.004-04:00

Our sweet girl Hannah is 10 today! Yes, 10!
I entered Hannah's life when she was 4 and she has blessed me every moment since. She is a smart, organized, loving, tenderhearted young woman. Her daily smiles and encouragement are priceless to our family!
I love you Hannah! I am so thankful to God for you each and every day.

What we do while the big kids are at camp

2010-07-16T19:21:00.004-04:00

We go to Gramma and Papa's!
We swim and dress up in pretty dresses Gramma got the baby.
Mommy gets to go hang out with her friends Kara and Jenny! FUN!

One Month Old!

2010-07-14T12:09:00.002-04:00

Wow! This past month flew by!!!
Noel Marie is one month old today and we couldn't love her more. She is a great baby. Sleep is good and she is nursing like a champ. Evan was still struggling with nursing at this point so this thrills me.
She has found her smile and she likes to smiled at silly noises. Oh and Daddy. She smiles and smiles for him. I think we have another Daddy's Girl on our hands. James thinks that's the best.
I couldn't pick just one picture, so here's four. I totally stole the idea of putting the baby next to a stuffed animal to track her growth. So every month she'll have her picture with her pink giraffe. :)

They're Off!

2010-07-13T17:51:00.002-04:00

Off to Camp Barakel that is. This is the kids annual trip/vacation away from home, parents all things routine. They love this week and start counting down as soon as we get the brochure in the winter.
We as parents love Barakel because we know our kids are safe and hear the Word of God cleary every day they are there.
Pray for the kids this week that they will have a good time, but most of all listen to what God has for them.

James and his buddy/step-brother Brayden.
Hannah's buddy Sarah is meeting her at Camp.

Cutie Girl

2010-07-05T21:53:00.001-04:00

Bath Time

2010-06-29T20:53:00.003-04:00

She finally lost her cord this weekend so let the baths begin! I thought she would cry and be a bit fussy. She doesn't like being cold. She was the opposite! She loved it! Even gave Daddy a smile when he came in.
I know she looks pitiful, but she really did like it.

Pictures

2010-06-29T10:31:00.002-04:00

Evan is SURE Noel is a boy.

2010-06-26T16:06:00.001-04:00

4 Generations

2010-06-22T16:33:00.002-04:00

I had to take one of Noel in a different color than pink :) She looks worried huh? That's because Evan is yelling "No Mommy, him's a boy, not Noel girl!"

This week in pictures

2010-06-19T09:41:00.004-04:00

Ready for baby to come!

Noel's first minute of life outside the womb. I'm glad James took a picture I was too teary eyed to see anything.

Big sister Hannah was quick to snuggle her, and will at any minute take her and hold her for an hour.

I melted just seeing my whole family together.

Biggest brother thinks she's pretty sweet too. He's ready for her to grow and play already. I can wait.

Papa loves his new girl!

My family - it's complete. Our quiver is FULL.

Noel content in her Daddy's arms. In fact, she has been there all morning. I sense another "Daddy's girl" in the future. I love it!

All 4 kids!

Gramma sure loves to snuggle her "little petunia" Noel.

Gramma did some baking with Evan. THAT was an adventure for her :) I'll post a video later. They're pretty funny together.

Playing outside on a hot day....Papa stayed out there with them to watch Evan for HOURS. What a great Grandpa he is.

The Story

2010-06-18T20:55:00.003-04:00

I know some of you like "birth stories" so, here's Noel's. :)

We had a planned C-section for several reasons, see the post below. So early Monday morning, June 14, we set off for the hospital. Early as in, we left the house at 5:00am! Early! I was scheduled for the first delivery of the day at 7:30am. I didn't sleep well the night before. I was anxious, scared and super excited to see my baby. God gave me the right husband (as if I doubted). He is calm and just prayed with me and calmed me right down. That was until 2 minutes before surgery. He had to wait outside, they had given me the spinal, I got sick on the nurse and anesthesiologist, and cried all over the place. What a mess I was! So, they waited for me to finish puking and then continued. James came in, held my hand and soon my baby girl arrived. As soon as they had her out, I made sure it was a girl and cried again. I'm my fathers daughter, what can I say. I cry a lot. They had a time getting her out. She was curled up by my ribs and they had to push her down. Ugh! That was uncomfortable. After months of wondering what the Lord had planned for us, Noel turned out to be PERFECT. Healthy as can be.
Recovery has been a bit slow. I was very nauseated the whole first day. My blood pressure kept dropping and making me woozy. The Lord helped me through all that and I feel really well now.
Noel is a dream come true. We have a wonderful baby girl and she is sweet as can be. Looks just like her big brother and is strong and cuddly at the same time. She is a great eater. Took to it right away. :) Yay! I was really worried because I had such a hard time with Evan. She has no problem latching and eats and eats. I hope soon she turns into a chubby little baby. I love chubby babies.
Thanks again for praying! We love you all and have felt and known you prayed for us all along. God is Good. All the time.

My cousin Nicole knit this for Noel. Isn't it beautiful? Thank you Nicole, your note is in the mail. :)

Noel Marie Wickman

2010-06-15T13:38:00.004-04:00

This is the best picture of our little girl so far.
She is wonderfully healthy and strong. A great little eater. She is everything we prayed for.

All Systems..GO

2010-06-12T12:30:00.002-04:00

The cradle is ready, little dresses are hung in the closet, onsies and sleepers all clean, and the diapers are bought. We're ready! Baby girl is scheduled to be delivered Monday morning at 7:30am. I'M totally ready. I think. I know that I can't wait to sleep on my stomach again, and the thought of bending over without my face turning red sounds nice too.
We decided quite a while ago to have a C-section with this one. We tried natural with Evan and after 30+ hours of labor he was an emergency C-section. Chances are I won't dilate with this one either. Also, in the first detailed ultrasound we had of her, she had a "concern". She had a calcium deposit on her heart. They didn't seem too concerned about it, but concerned enough to recommend a C-section. It may already have disappeared but we really don't know yet. This could mean anything from Downs Syndrome (worst case scenario) to nothing. Don't Google it, you'll find all the terrible things and not much of the cases where it was nothing. I certainly have staying away from even listening to the What if's. Only the Lord really knows. Her facial structures are all normal so the worst case chances are slim to none. We decided a long time ago that if we had children we would take whatever the Lord blessed us with and be happy. We still will, no matter what! I love her so much already. This is no way a life threatening thing, but still may effect her in some small way. We'll know on Monday. Oh I just can't wait to meet her!!!!!
Pray for us as we transition to a family of 6. We are excited to grow and to see how God has been providing and preparing our family for the growth to come. Evan is still not sure about a baby coming to stay, but he'll adjust, we all will. :)

My Fun Suprise Shower

2010-06-04T15:14:00.002-04:00

On Tuesday I went to what I thought was a playdate for MOPs, and when I got there they suprised me with a baby shower! My friend Stephanie D. planned a casserole shower. All the women that came brought a casserole/meal that was frozen for me to add to my freezer to have on hand when the baby comes. Isn't that the best idea ever?? I thought it was GREAT! It was not only my MOPs friends, but they had gathered some women from my church too! It was so wonderful to be together and have some fun in the sun. Thank you ladies for a wonderful suprising afternoon. The meals looks delicious, you have outdone yourselves....again. :)

One More Thing I Like About My Town

2010-06-01T09:28:00.002-04:00

I like my town. It's not my hometown, but it's a pretty great town and it's where we have chosen to raise our kids. I like it!
This town has such a sense of patriotism. They have an annual Memorial Day parade that easily draws a thousand people to watch. It is a great parade with fire trucks, tractors, girl scouts and LOTS of veterans...the reason for Memorial Day.

Band Concert

2010-05-27T09:39:00.003-04:00

James had his last band concert of 5th grade. His plan is to continue with the Tuba next year! I'm glad about that. He enjoys it very much. They have improved a lot throughout this year. :) This video is a sampling of their concert. He is the only Tuba if you are looking for him. Those of you that are musically inclined, please remember this is 5th grade band :)